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Thursday, February 3, 2011

UPDATE 2/2/2011

On the move again
Superior mother returns home one year after accident caused brain hemorrhage


By Kimberli Turner

Colorado Hometown Weekly



When Billy O’Donnell was told to bring home one fireworks fountain for his mom’s homecoming celebration, he brought home four.
And it wasn’t just Billy, 18, who was excited about the return of his mother, Michele O’Donnell — a crowd of friends, family and Superior community members waited in the O’Donnells’ Rock Creek driveway on Friday, Jan. 29, to give her the welcome she deserved after being away for just over a year.

On Jan. 27, 2010, Michele slipped and fell in the bathroom of the family’s Cancun timeshare, which caused a brain hemorrhage that required an immediate operation.
She was in a drug-induced coma for a week of her monthlong stay in a hospital in Mexico, before moving to Jackson Memorial Hospital in Florida, where she suffered a second brain hemorrhage. Following a two-month stint there, Michele came back to Colorado and went into a comatose state for 45 days at Denver-based Kindred Hospital before traveling to other rehabilitation facilities for treatment and physical therapy.

Michele’s husband, John O’Donnell, and their children Billy, Alyssa, 14, Tana, 16, and John John, 8, nearly lost her eight times. But each time, they said she fought to recover, and John could finally do what he had wanted to accomplish for a year.
“I brought my girl home,” he told a friend at the celebration.

Following a lunch in Boulder, John drove Michele up to their home on Alma Lane, where more than 50 people were waiting to release purple and white balloons.
When Michele got out of the car, she took step after step with a walker to greet the crowd and, in the background, the first strains of singer Katy Perry’s “Firework” began to play.
Then Billy got to set off his fireworks display, alerting the community that his mother was finally home.
“It means everything. I’ve been waiting for her to come home,” he said Saturday. “It’s incredible.”

Michele’s sisters, Cindy Skerjanec of Brighton and Amy McAlister of Longmont, were also there to welcome Michele.
Amy said the sisters cried a lot in the months following Michele’s accident, but now they laugh a lot, knowing the worst is over.
McAlister and her nieces and nephews flew down to Jackson Memorial last Easter because they thought they were going to have to say goodbye to Michele. But Michele, who had last rites read to her several times, had other plans.
“I said, ‘No way,’” she said.
And through the ups and downs of her recovery, the ups finally became more frequent, especially during Michele’s time at Boulder Manor, McAlister said.
“There was definitely a feeling when I thought the floor wasn’t going to drop out from under us,” she said.
McAlister and Skerjanec said they finally started to feel optimistic about Michele’s recovery when she got to Boulder Manor this past fall, and they believe music therapy really helped in Michele’s healing.

Michele’s best friend, Karen Long of Florida, agreed.
“She loves her music. From the beginning John had her iPod in her room,” she said. “Even in intensive care we played it all night long.”
While Michele was having difficulty relearning how to talk, she had no difficulty in singing along to the music, Long said. And, eventually, the words came, too.

Following her stay at Boulder Manor, Michele moved to the Mapleton Center in December, where she learned to eat a meal and walk down a hallway and up and down the stairs.
And now, with some help, Michele practices walking up and down the 14 stairs in her home.
“The (first) time I did it by myself, I almost fell,” she said. “I went all the way up and all the way down. It’s weird, but I do it.”
Because of the mounting medical bills, John was forced to put their home up for sale.

The O’Donnells plan to stay in Superior for another year or two, and then John hopes to build a new home on a piece of land outside of Fairplay.
John said the house doesn’t matter, though, and the family got back what was most important to them:

“It’s truly a miracle she’s here.”




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Tuesday, February 1, 2011

UPDATE 1/28/2011

Michele O'Donnell, mother of 4, returns to Superior home after a year in hospitals






SUPERIOR -- A cruel irony will be at play at Michele O'Donnell's homecoming this weekend.

There will be balloons, fireworks and hundreds of friends, neighbors and well-wishers at her Alma Lane home in Superior on Saturday to welcome her back from a year of hospitals, rehab centers and five surgeries on her brain.

But the home where Michele has lived with her family for 11 years won't be hers for long.

The travails of having to keep the 42-year-old mother of four alive after she slipped and smashed her head in Mexico one year ago have resulted in months of missed work for her husband and piles of medical bills that have whittled away the family's savings.

Mortgage payments were missed, the house briefly fell into foreclosure last month, and now the place must be sold.

John O'Donnell, Michele's husband of 20 years, said the family will "downsize," rent a place nearby and work toward their long-term goal -- buying some property in Park County and building a modest home there.

"We'll live well below our means for the next couple of years until I can save up some money," John said. "I can rebuild, and I will. The two things I have to do most is take care of her and get back to work."

The stress of the O'Donnells' ordeal over the last 12 months was evident earlier this week. Tears welled in John's eyes as he stood on the upstairs landing of his Rock Creek house, where two showings were scheduled for later that day.

His recent handiwork -- a handicap-accessible shower and toilet stall that he constructed to make it possible for Michele to use the bathroom -- denoted a more auspicious time.

"When I had to pack up the very first box, I couldn't," said John, who owns an equipment financing business in Arvada.

But he refuses to let the accident pull him down.

Despite the troubles that have befallen his family since his wife slipped and struck her head on a wet bathroom floor at their vacation timeshare in Cancun on Jan. 27, 2010, John takes pleasure in the progress of Michele's recovery from near death.

"The good news is we got her, and all the rest doesn't matter," he said. "I got my girl back."

Michele, who left the Mapleton Rehabilitation Center in Boulder a week ago after a six-week stay, has gone from someone who was unresponsive and hooked up to an endless tangle of feeding and oxygen tubes to someone who smiles, laughs, jokes and teases her kids and husband.

"No way, dude," she said to John on Thursday, when he mentioned the impending move out of their home.

Like any mother might, she challenged her eldest son's plans to join the Navy, saying "maybe" when he talked about heading to boot camp.

"I remember the way she was on day one and halfway through it, and I'm so proud of her," said Billy O'Donnell, 18, who has regularly visited his mother at the seven hospitals and rehab facilities she has called home for a year. "It's a good feeling seeing her every day and night."

In the short time that has passed since the Camera profiled her story in late December, Michele has made remarkable strides forward.

She walks hundreds of feet at a time with a walker, converses in short sentences and phrases, and motions to her family members animatedly. She has lost the eye patch that served to counter her double vision, and her hair is slowly growing back to the shoulder length she desires.

Michele dresses herself, brushes her own hair and teeth and can make it up the stairs in her home with the help of a cane. Her cocktail of 15 medications has been reduced to just three.

"I do it all myself," Michele said, beaming from a chair in her family room. "Do it all -- I have to."

Her husband hopes she'll be able to return to her true passion -- cooking -- as soon as possible. She's already telling him where in the local Safeway he can find the ingredients for dinner, he said.

Amy McAlister marvels at the progress her sister makes each day.

"She says things she couldn't remember yesterday," said McAlister, before being overwhelmed by emotion and a stream of tears. "So many times along the way we thought, 'This is it.'"

Whether Michele truly recognizes that she will soon be leaving the home that she has always taken great pride in running isn't entirely clear. But she knows exactly -- without hesitation -- what she likes best about being back home.

"Him and my kids," Michele said, pointing to her husband and son. "That's what I want."



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