We have some positive information from this afternoon’s visit. Michele’s platelet count went from 55k to 187k (a normal level) which is excellent, and means she is producing her own platelets, and receiving no transfusions. The EEG machine that was previously hooked up to monitor brain wave activity to detect seizures was removed as everything looks normal. Also, she had an ultra-sound done yesterday to look for any blood clots in her arms, legs and entire body. There are none. There is a slight fever, but nothing to be alarmed of.
Michele was peacefully resting and we did not wake her. Tomorrow we will get a briefing from one of the residents of her overall status, and hope to get an update on the blood cultures.
Mass at St. Joan of Arc was very nice this morning. The Priest blessed the bracelet that Amy is currently wearing, the one that Rosa from the Royal Mayan gave to me while we were there.
Tonight we are being taken out to dinner by some friends from Boca Raton and are looking forward to catching up, talking about old times and just relaxing.
Keep those prayers coming.
Love to all,
John
Sunday, February 28, 2010
UPDATE 2/27 PM
There is no change in Michele’s condition today, and as her dayshift nurse, Anna said, ”no news is good news.” Each time we visited today, Michele was resting very comfortably. Her platelet count is up over 100k without transfusions. She is in good hands. A few pictures from tonight attached.
Tomorrow we are going to 9:15 a.m. mass at St. Joan of Arc in Boca Raton, where Michele and I were married almost 19 years ago April 6 is our 19th wedding anniversary. Family with join us, and we are hoping to see other friendly faces.
Just so you all know, I am hanging in there. My shoulders are getting weak but I will keep stable for my Michele. Please continue to pray for her safety and complete recovery.
As we type this email tonight, a song plays in the background. “Will you still love me”, by Chicago. Our wedding song. Amy is a person who believes in “signs”, and she told me there was a reason this song was playing right now. Please read the lyrics below.
Love to all,
John
Wedding Song:
Take me as I am. Put your hand in mine now and forever.
Darling here I stand, stand before you now. Deep inside I always knew.
It was you, you and me. Two hearts drawn together bound by destiny.
It was you and you for me. Every road leads to your door. Every step I take for evermore.
Just say you love me for the rest of your life! I gotta lot of love and I don't want to let go.
Will you still love me for the rest of my life?
'Cause I can't go on…
No, I can't go on…
I can't go on…
If I'm on my own.
Take me as I am. Put your heart in mine, stay with me forever.
'Cause I am just a man who never understood. I never had a thing to prove
'Till there was you. You and me. Then it all came clear so suddenly.
How close to you that I wanna be. Do you believe a love could run so strong?
Do you believe a love could pass you by? There was no special one for me.
I was the lonely one, you see. But then my heart lost all control.
Now you're all that I know.
“Please come back to me Miracle Michele
Your loving husband
John”
Tomorrow we are going to 9:15 a.m. mass at St. Joan of Arc in Boca Raton, where Michele and I were married almost 19 years ago April 6 is our 19th wedding anniversary. Family with join us, and we are hoping to see other friendly faces.
Just so you all know, I am hanging in there. My shoulders are getting weak but I will keep stable for my Michele. Please continue to pray for her safety and complete recovery.
As we type this email tonight, a song plays in the background. “Will you still love me”, by Chicago. Our wedding song. Amy is a person who believes in “signs”, and she told me there was a reason this song was playing right now. Please read the lyrics below.
Love to all,
John
Wedding Song:
Take me as I am. Put your hand in mine now and forever.
Darling here I stand, stand before you now. Deep inside I always knew.
It was you, you and me. Two hearts drawn together bound by destiny.
It was you and you for me. Every road leads to your door. Every step I take for evermore.
Just say you love me for the rest of your life! I gotta lot of love and I don't want to let go.
Will you still love me for the rest of my life?
'Cause I can't go on…
No, I can't go on…
I can't go on…
If I'm on my own.
Take me as I am. Put your heart in mine, stay with me forever.
'Cause I am just a man who never understood. I never had a thing to prove
'Till there was you. You and me. Then it all came clear so suddenly.
How close to you that I wanna be. Do you believe a love could run so strong?
Do you believe a love could pass you by? There was no special one for me.
I was the lonely one, you see. But then my heart lost all control.
Now you're all that I know.
“Please come back to me Miracle Michele
Your loving husband
John”
Saturday, February 27, 2010
UPDATE 2/26 PM
Today started off rough for us, Brenda, Amy and myself. We were feeling out of sorts, trying to get our bearings in Miami. In the end, we are settled in a room at the Courtyard Marriott, and have rented a car. We needed to get grounded, to re-group and re-organize so that we could be there 100% for Michele. She is all that matters. Nothing else matters but Michele.
We visited Michele this afternoon, and finally met with her doctors, Dr. Bullock her neurosurgeon & his team of 3 residents. They are currently familiarizing themselves with Michele and her condition. They asked us many questions of her previous treatment in Mexico. They are trying to figure out the source of her infection, and have changed a few medications. There is blood work in the lab, which we expect results on in a day or so. During our visit this afternoon, Michele’s eyes were open, however she was not responsive to us, mostly starring off in the distance. The doctors believe this is due to the infection, and basically she’s just not feeling well and needs to rest. As of this evening, there is no major change in Michele’s condition.
During our visit to say good night this evening, Michele was resting very comfortably and peacefully. The machines, nurses and doctors are doing the work.
We realize that many of you want to visit with Michele. The outpouring of love is GREAT, and trust me, we feel it. At this time, we ask that only our immediate family visit with Michele, as she is just in the beginning stages of recovery here in Miami. We ask you to please respect our wishes. That being said, we would LOVE to meet with anyone in the area, for lunch, dinner, a drink… it would be wonderful to see any and all of you. Please call Amy or myself to arrange. We would both love to see a friendly face and hear kind words.
Love-John
We visited Michele this afternoon, and finally met with her doctors, Dr. Bullock her neurosurgeon & his team of 3 residents. They are currently familiarizing themselves with Michele and her condition. They asked us many questions of her previous treatment in Mexico. They are trying to figure out the source of her infection, and have changed a few medications. There is blood work in the lab, which we expect results on in a day or so. During our visit this afternoon, Michele’s eyes were open, however she was not responsive to us, mostly starring off in the distance. The doctors believe this is due to the infection, and basically she’s just not feeling well and needs to rest. As of this evening, there is no major change in Michele’s condition.
During our visit to say good night this evening, Michele was resting very comfortably and peacefully. The machines, nurses and doctors are doing the work.
We realize that many of you want to visit with Michele. The outpouring of love is GREAT, and trust me, we feel it. At this time, we ask that only our immediate family visit with Michele, as she is just in the beginning stages of recovery here in Miami. We ask you to please respect our wishes. That being said, we would LOVE to meet with anyone in the area, for lunch, dinner, a drink… it would be wonderful to see any and all of you. Please call Amy or myself to arrange. We would both love to see a friendly face and hear kind words.
Love-John
Friday, February 26, 2010
UPDATE 2/25 PM
GOD BLESS AMERICA! Michele is on our home soil! We left Ameri-Med hospital in Cancun via ambulance to the airport. There we boarded a private medivac plane, equipped with all of the medical equipment needed to support Michele for the flight, including a respiratory therapist, a medical doctor, surgical nurse, 2 pilots (and me). We landed safely in Miami around 4:30 this afternoon and were taken to Jackson Memorial Trauma center where Brenda, Amy, Annette, Kristin and Michelle met us.
I was basically kicked out of ICU and Michele had a team of 10+ doctors checking her out from head to toe. Then she was moved to the neurosurgical ICU, a more private and quiet area where we were able to visit her two at a time. Michele’s eyes are open, however she is still unable to communicate with us, other than blinking to answer my questions. She still loves me. Blink.
It was a long day, and the doctors and nurses here in Miami are just getting familiar with Michele and her condition. Brenda, Amy and I will stay at a hotel close to the hospital tonight, and then look for a long-term living solution tomorrow.
The most important thing about today is that Michele is home. She is in the United States of America. She will receive the best care possible here at Jackson Memorial and we are looking forward to seeing improvements, “Day by Day”.
We are so thankful that she is here and that she is safe. We have nothing but gratitude for the doctors and nurses at Ameri-Med.
The prayers and well wishes have been well received and appreciated but our struggle is not even close to over so please keep my Miracle Michele in your daily prayers.
I was basically kicked out of ICU and Michele had a team of 10+ doctors checking her out from head to toe. Then she was moved to the neurosurgical ICU, a more private and quiet area where we were able to visit her two at a time. Michele’s eyes are open, however she is still unable to communicate with us, other than blinking to answer my questions. She still loves me. Blink.
It was a long day, and the doctors and nurses here in Miami are just getting familiar with Michele and her condition. Brenda, Amy and I will stay at a hotel close to the hospital tonight, and then look for a long-term living solution tomorrow.
The most important thing about today is that Michele is home. She is in the United States of America. She will receive the best care possible here at Jackson Memorial and we are looking forward to seeing improvements, “Day by Day”.
We are so thankful that she is here and that she is safe. We have nothing but gratitude for the doctors and nurses at Ameri-Med.
The prayers and well wishes have been well received and appreciated but our struggle is not even close to over so please keep my Miracle Michele in your daily prayers.
Thursday, February 25, 2010
UPDATE 2/24 PM
COMING TO THE U.S.A.
Today we visited Michele at 9am and she was still sedated from the operation. Karen left at noon and Billy and I returned to see Michele 2 more times today. She is awake but not the same as yesterday due to the sedation. She is fighting a staff infection now as well as the brucellosis. She has not had any other medication other than her antibiotics for infection and morphine for pain. She is ready for transportation which should happen in the morning “ lets say Mexican time” as if you know me I will be on the second hand of the clock all day but I have to be patient. We will be going to Miami Florida “Jackson Memorial Hospital” some time tomorrow. Please do not send flowers as she will be in ICU and we are not over this critical stage. I will be sending out info as to where I will be staying and what is going on later tomorrow as I know we have a lot of Florida family and friends. Lets take this “ Day by Day” right now and I will keep all of you informed.
My son Billy will be leaving Cancun around 5pm tomorrow so I will be leaving him hear by himself for a short period of time but knowing what a strong young man Michele and I have raised I am no a bit concerned.
Platelets are still dangerously low at 21k and Michele needs her transfusions 2-3 times a day and it seems like they do not have enough of them for her, so I will be happy to have her in America so I do not have to worry about that issue. We have had a lot of donors but the process is still difficult and takes a lot of time which I do not understand.
Michele’s luggage is at the hospital and mine is ready at all times and at any notice to take action. The only relief I have is that I have her passport and will not give it up unless I am with her during travel. They have asked for it and I will not give it up.
Please do not stop your prayers.
My son Billy will be leaving Cancun around 5pm tomorrow so I will be leaving him hear by himself for a short period of time but knowing what a strong young man Michele and I have raised I am no a bit concerned.
Platelets are still dangerously low at 21k and Michele needs her transfusions 2-3 times a day and it seems like they do not have enough of them for her, so I will be happy to have her in America so I do not have to worry about that issue. We have had a lot of donors but the process is still difficult and takes a lot of time which I do not understand.
Michele’s luggage is at the hospital and mine is ready at all times and at any notice to take action. The only relief I have is that I have her passport and will not give it up unless I am with her during travel. They have asked for it and I will not give it up.
Please do not stop your prayers.
A Mother's Son...I love this picture....
John
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
UPDATE 2/24 (EARLY AM)
Well it is 2am in Cancun and we just got back from the ICU. Michele had her operations between 12 am and 1am and believe it or not I convinced the doctors to allow me to scrub in and attend the entire procedures. This must be part of my natural salesmanship or the fact that I am in Mexico and not in America with all the HIPA regulations that would never allow me to attend such a surgery. Michele had a tracheotomy and 2 tubes placed in her lungs to relive fluid and help in her transport to America. She had 200 ml of fluid in her right lung and 50 ml in her left lung. Both tubes will stay in place until she in stable and back in America. She had a huge amount of mucus plug in her incubation therefore causing her breathing to be very labored. The operation releaved this mucus and we were able to extract more mucus from her throat and clear her air way. She was awake for the tracheotomy and her left leg was moving quite a bit so I was rubbing her leg during the operation. Sorry to gross you all out but I was so impelled to be with her during every part of her struggle to get better and wanted to share it with you all.
Keep the prayers coming.
John
Keep the prayers coming.
John
UPDATE 2/23
First of all it has been 20 days since Michele was placed back in the controlled come and I am happy to say she was awake with both eyes wide open and watching us move around the room in amazement. She is really awake not just an eye open from now and again but open all the time and looking at us. I asked her if she new who I was and she blinked. Then I asked if she loved me and she blinked. I brought out our Christmas picture and put it in front of her eyes and she looked at all our family and I told her that each of her children loved her and what they were currently doing. Her arms moved when they tried to suction fluid out of her mouth as it is very irritating to her.
She had her bone marrow test done and it came back perfect she is producing he own platelets but at a slower pace that her fighting her infection. She has fluid in her lungs that will be removed tonight as well as a tracheotomy right about now. They have waited all day to get her 100k in platelets to give her at the same time as the operation so she will not be in danger. Once this is done tonight we will wait 24 to 36 hours then she has been approved to me medivaced out of Mexico. Miami will probably be out destination but I will not know until tomorrow. The key to convince the insurance company was that she needs a team of infectious disease specialists that they do not have in Cancun then intense physical therapy. I am currently on a 2 hour notice to leave once she is stable after 24 hours after the operation. They will call me and we will be on a flight out of here.
Although this all sounds good please remember that we are far from over this horrible tragedy and Michele is not out of danger by any means. I take every day “Day by Day” in hopes we do not take any steps backwards. We will be going back to the hospital tonight to say good night and again in the early morning as Karen leaves at noon. Billy leaves on Thursday but I expect to be on a plane before him heading for Florida. Billy will return home to help take care of his siblings and get back to school. Amy has put her plans to fly to Cancun on hold and is ready for my instruction to fly to our new destination.
The pictures attached are of Dr Garcia, Michele and myself; some family pictures and Valentines roses; and the jar of Jelly beans being filled by Billy which each bean are a thank you to every person in the ICU that take part in Michele’s care and recovery.
I would love to get Michele back to Colorado but the flight is too long and her safety is first. We will make it home in due time.
Please continue your prayers as I truly believe they are working in Gods time
She had her bone marrow test done and it came back perfect she is producing he own platelets but at a slower pace that her fighting her infection. She has fluid in her lungs that will be removed tonight as well as a tracheotomy right about now. They have waited all day to get her 100k in platelets to give her at the same time as the operation so she will not be in danger. Once this is done tonight we will wait 24 to 36 hours then she has been approved to me medivaced out of Mexico. Miami will probably be out destination but I will not know until tomorrow. The key to convince the insurance company was that she needs a team of infectious disease specialists that they do not have in Cancun then intense physical therapy. I am currently on a 2 hour notice to leave once she is stable after 24 hours after the operation. They will call me and we will be on a flight out of here.
Although this all sounds good please remember that we are far from over this horrible tragedy and Michele is not out of danger by any means. I take every day “Day by Day” in hopes we do not take any steps backwards. We will be going back to the hospital tonight to say good night and again in the early morning as Karen leaves at noon. Billy leaves on Thursday but I expect to be on a plane before him heading for Florida. Billy will return home to help take care of his siblings and get back to school. Amy has put her plans to fly to Cancun on hold and is ready for my instruction to fly to our new destination.
The pictures attached are of Dr Garcia, Michele and myself; some family pictures and Valentines roses; and the jar of Jelly beans being filled by Billy which each bean are a thank you to every person in the ICU that take part in Michele’s care and recovery.
I would love to get Michele back to Colorado but the flight is too long and her safety is first. We will make it home in due time.
Please continue your prayers as I truly believe they are working in Gods time
John
Monday, February 22, 2010
UPDATE 2/22
I spoke to Dr Garcia today and her platelets are at 40k today and she is getting more transfusions. Again we want her over 100k. She was able to open her eyes and follow his voice from one side of the room to the other which shows a cognitive response. During her CAT scan she moved her entire right arm which is amazing if you saw how big her arms are from swelling. Although the swelling is from all the meds and fluids going into her they decided to wrap both arms and elevate them to try and bring the swelling down. Her scan was good and the hematoma is decreasing. The brain is centered and the right side is completely normal. The left side still shows signs of swelling but it is decreasing every day and he thinks this is a good sign overall. It could take several months for the swelling to completely go away and only then will we have a full understanding of future prognosis of any neurological damage.
They continue to look for other infections other than the brucellosis but cannot find any to date. The hematologist will take a bone marrow sample today to help try and figure out why she is not producing white platelets. A tracheotomy will be performed as well as a gastro line to help feed her and help her on her breathing as the respirator has been in too long and causes swelling in the throat. When we bring her back home the tracheotomy will be the best option in case of any emergency they can quickly hook her up and when it is not used it is capped off.
Donors are storming the blood bank and I thank everyone that assisted in getting people over hear in Cancun to move so quickly on this. We still need donors as we don’t know who long Michele will need platelets so we want to stock up as much as we can and the rest will be donated to the next person in need.
I was forced to rent a car today to get back and forth as the resort stopped my free transportation and the cab fares were too expensive. Anyways I trust my driving much better that the cabbies so I feel safer.
Please continue your prayers for my Miracle Michele
John
They continue to look for other infections other than the brucellosis but cannot find any to date. The hematologist will take a bone marrow sample today to help try and figure out why she is not producing white platelets. A tracheotomy will be performed as well as a gastro line to help feed her and help her on her breathing as the respirator has been in too long and causes swelling in the throat. When we bring her back home the tracheotomy will be the best option in case of any emergency they can quickly hook her up and when it is not used it is capped off.
Donors are storming the blood bank and I thank everyone that assisted in getting people over hear in Cancun to move so quickly on this. We still need donors as we don’t know who long Michele will need platelets so we want to stock up as much as we can and the rest will be donated to the next person in need.
I was forced to rent a car today to get back and forth as the resort stopped my free transportation and the cab fares were too expensive. Anyways I trust my driving much better that the cabbies so I feel safer.
Please continue your prayers for my Miracle Michele
John
Sunday, February 21, 2010
UPDATE 2/21
We visited Michele this morning and again her platelets are at a dangerously low level of 21k. She was being given platelets as we arrived and I was told it was from Dr Garcia himself. We have 3 donors at this time, Toto from the Royal Resorts, Dr.Garcia and Bruce Gordon from the US Embassy. Michele has a small fever therefore we did not stay long as we need her to rest, so her body can fight the infection and try to build her own platelets. We still need more donors. We have had a few more graciously go up to donate but could not because of being on certain medications. Royal Resorts has put out an email to all the employees to ask them for help in donating. We are going to rest today by the pool and try and get some down time so we are ready for Michele when she gets her infection under control. It is hard to stay away from the one you love but I know it is the right thing to do right now so I can have the strength when she needs me the most. The doctors and nurses are taking care of her and I trust them. I will send out another email later tonight when we go by to say good night.
Keep the prayers coming!
John
Keep the prayers coming!
John
Saturday, February 20, 2010
UPDATE 2/20
Our day started out rough. We had to move to another resort then rush to the hospital to find Michele at 23k in Platelets. This is a dangerous level so we did not even get a chance to see her at all this morning so that she could rest and not get too much stimulation until she was able to get her transfusion of platelets. I know everyone wants to donate but it has to be done in person in Cancun and cannot be sent from America. Although we had no donors as of this morning we have worked out several options to reach out to the staff at the royal resorts, church’s, American embassy, and several people we have run across in the resort that are willing at a whim to go and donate after they hear our story and we now have heard that several people are making their way to the donation center today and throughout the weekend. Dr Garcia also stated if it gets to the point that they get low he will donate himself. What a wonderful doctor Michele has and truly cares for his patients.
Karen, Billy and I visited Michele at 6pm today and she was very reactive and showed signs of response to our visit. She opened her right eye and moved her left arm at our request. This has been our 1st true glimmer of hope over the last 7-10 days and we were very excited. Do not take this as a full recovery but a jump in the right direction. She was getting her platelets at the time and I’m sure this was part of the reaction. She has life in her and we are going to preserve that Life! We will work daily on it until we get her back fully. “100% is what I am praying for!”
This has been a day of ups and downs but we are going to bed tonight very optimistic that tomorrow will be another day of improvement.
Thanks for all the emails and prayers. So many people are there for me and my family in some way or another and I want you to know how much it means to us and is greatly appreciated!.
Billy has said that he wants to express his comments and feelings on the day he brings his mother home. I love his determination and power of suggestion to complete this process. He has grown so much through this trying time with taking care of his siblings and being the man I am proud of! When the time is right he will express his gratitude and feelings to all as well as his Mother. He loves her so dearly and wants to bring her home to his brother and sisters.
Love and prayers as always,
Love John
Karen, Billy and I visited Michele at 6pm today and she was very reactive and showed signs of response to our visit. She opened her right eye and moved her left arm at our request. This has been our 1st true glimmer of hope over the last 7-10 days and we were very excited. Do not take this as a full recovery but a jump in the right direction. She was getting her platelets at the time and I’m sure this was part of the reaction. She has life in her and we are going to preserve that Life! We will work daily on it until we get her back fully. “100% is what I am praying for!”
This has been a day of ups and downs but we are going to bed tonight very optimistic that tomorrow will be another day of improvement.
Thanks for all the emails and prayers. So many people are there for me and my family in some way or another and I want you to know how much it means to us and is greatly appreciated!.
Billy has said that he wants to express his comments and feelings on the day he brings his mother home. I love his determination and power of suggestion to complete this process. He has grown so much through this trying time with taking care of his siblings and being the man I am proud of! When the time is right he will express his gratitude and feelings to all as well as his Mother. He loves her so dearly and wants to bring her home to his brother and sisters.
Love and prayers as always,
Love John
Friday, February 19, 2010
UPDATE 2/19
I wish I had better news but today was not what I had hoped for. I was not able to spend very much time with her today as she was going through many blood treatments. Her platelets went below 30k which is not good and the blood bank is in low supply. Karen, Billy and I tried to give blood today and none of us would qualify for one reason or another. I pleaded to the Doctors for her to get her transfusion today that was so greatly needed but she will probably need another 12 hours later. We have a hematologist assigned to her to try and figure out why she is losing her platelets so quickly. Low platelets could cause the swelling in the brain to come back. The good news is her CAT scan showed more improvement but we cannot get her to wake up and we cannot keep her platelets level and we do not know why at this point. The royal resorts sent out an email to the entire staff that blood donations were needed for her and I know Rosa in the laundry room which Michele loved is going tomorrow to give blood. Bruce from the US Embassy is also going to give. And I’m sure others that know us from the last 8 years we have been coming to the resort will try to donate. I will be going to the local church to ask as well so I can make sure she gets the platelets she needs daily. Her eyes try to open and she does have very little movement in her arms and legs.
Please keep Praying
John
Please keep Praying
John
Thursday, February 18, 2010
UPDATE 2/18
Well today was a tough day as you will find out throughout this email.
First Michele is doing well. Her fever is under control at this time and all vitals are good. She is expected to have another CAT scan tomorrow morning and we are looking for continued decrease in the swelling. Her platelets fell below 70k remember she was at 700k just 2 days ago so she had to have a transfusion of platelets to battle her infection and our goal is to keep her above 100k in platelets daily. She is tested twice a day for this and will receive them as needed.
(as I am writing this email the hotel next to us just lit off fireworks must have been for my birthday) I worked hard on Michele today trying to get responses from her and by the end of the day I got her to blink her eyes to tell me she loved me and I got her to move her entire right arm about 1 inch. Dr Garcia stated before I leave I will be qualified for his job. Not quite but a nice gesture from him. He watches me working her hard to get any movement out of her. He has told to me stimulate her as much as possible and if you know me I can be a pain in the ass.
Billy has arrived and is in charge of “Project Birthday Wish” all I want tomorrow is a noticeable improvement in Michele’s motor skills and her to open her eyes on her own.
Karen and I were involved in a car accident today while in a cab returning from the Hospital to the resort 40 miles an hour and our cab rear ended another cab stopped dead in the street although the car was probably totaled, we walked from the accident. Just our luck! Other than some whiplash we feel ok at this time and are a little shook up. My day was full of anger and frustration after this but I am getting through it with the help of Karen and all of the wonderful emails I receive throughout each day from all of you. Keep the emails coming!
I got a call from my cell phone company threatening to disconnect my service due to the high rate of my calls in the last 21 days which has summed up to $5,000.00. My phone is mine and Michele’s life line right now to America and the numerous amounts of calls we have to make to the doctors, attorneys, schools, work, children and direct family members. I appreciate all the calls but please do not call me unless it is of an urgent matter. I hate having to say this because I have needed and appreciated these calls and they have helped me tremendously but they are costing me too much, so please instead of a calling please put your thoughts in an email or text. All my emails are free and are unlimited and I get them immediately on my blackberry, texting me is also free but me texting you back cost me a lot so do not expect an answer to your text only emails. This is my support system that is needed greatly so keep the emails coming! They are what helps me get through each “Day by Day”
I have been told many times that the Lord only gives you what you can handle and I truly believe this. I hope he understands that I have had enough and I want Michele back and the pain to end.
Keep praying for my Miracle Michele!
John
First Michele is doing well. Her fever is under control at this time and all vitals are good. She is expected to have another CAT scan tomorrow morning and we are looking for continued decrease in the swelling. Her platelets fell below 70k remember she was at 700k just 2 days ago so she had to have a transfusion of platelets to battle her infection and our goal is to keep her above 100k in platelets daily. She is tested twice a day for this and will receive them as needed.
(as I am writing this email the hotel next to us just lit off fireworks must have been for my birthday) I worked hard on Michele today trying to get responses from her and by the end of the day I got her to blink her eyes to tell me she loved me and I got her to move her entire right arm about 1 inch. Dr Garcia stated before I leave I will be qualified for his job. Not quite but a nice gesture from him. He watches me working her hard to get any movement out of her. He has told to me stimulate her as much as possible and if you know me I can be a pain in the ass.
Billy has arrived and is in charge of “Project Birthday Wish” all I want tomorrow is a noticeable improvement in Michele’s motor skills and her to open her eyes on her own.
Karen and I were involved in a car accident today while in a cab returning from the Hospital to the resort 40 miles an hour and our cab rear ended another cab stopped dead in the street although the car was probably totaled, we walked from the accident. Just our luck! Other than some whiplash we feel ok at this time and are a little shook up. My day was full of anger and frustration after this but I am getting through it with the help of Karen and all of the wonderful emails I receive throughout each day from all of you. Keep the emails coming!
I got a call from my cell phone company threatening to disconnect my service due to the high rate of my calls in the last 21 days which has summed up to $5,000.00. My phone is mine and Michele’s life line right now to America and the numerous amounts of calls we have to make to the doctors, attorneys, schools, work, children and direct family members. I appreciate all the calls but please do not call me unless it is of an urgent matter. I hate having to say this because I have needed and appreciated these calls and they have helped me tremendously but they are costing me too much, so please instead of a calling please put your thoughts in an email or text. All my emails are free and are unlimited and I get them immediately on my blackberry, texting me is also free but me texting you back cost me a lot so do not expect an answer to your text only emails. This is my support system that is needed greatly so keep the emails coming! They are what helps me get through each “Day by Day”
I have been told many times that the Lord only gives you what you can handle and I truly believe this. I hope he understands that I have had enough and I want Michele back and the pain to end.
Keep praying for my Miracle Michele!
John
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
UPDATE 2/17
Well the doctors have identified the source of the infection and although it is of serious concern the doctors feel they have it under control and she is getting the right treatment for the infection. This infection will take 8 weeks to battle but she is on the right track. The treatment will have a great affect on her liver and therefore she will have her liver tested every 12 hours so no harm is done. Her temp is now under control and we now have no reason for her not to wake up over the next few days. Since she was deeply sedated for 16 days it is taking time for all the sedation to leave her body. Fat cells are the last to store the drugs and she is in heavy rehab right now. I was told her arms moved today and she opens her eyes during the rehab. Since we are not there during this process she is usually asleep when we are there. Not much fun for us because we cannot really see the improvements yet but I know she is getting better “Day by Day”. Once she is out of the coma and done with rehab her infection can be treated outpatient so she does not need to stay at the hospital for that reason. I pray every day that she will wake up and start talking but, I have to be patient.
Thanks to an email from Sr. Anne reminding me that today is “Ash Wednesday”, I was able to attend church today to receive my ashes and light another candle for Michele. Billy arrives tomorrow afternoon and will be in charge of waking his mother up for my birthday this Friday. That is all I want for my Birthday.
Thanks for all your emails and support. Michele and I are blessed to have such wonderful people in our lives!
Keep praying,
Day by day
Day by day
Oh Dear Lord
Three things I pray
To see thee more clearly
Love thee more dearly
Follow thee more nearly
Day by day
Day by day by day by day...
Thanks to an email from Sr. Anne reminding me that today is “Ash Wednesday”, I was able to attend church today to receive my ashes and light another candle for Michele. Billy arrives tomorrow afternoon and will be in charge of waking his mother up for my birthday this Friday. That is all I want for my Birthday.
Thanks for all your emails and support. Michele and I are blessed to have such wonderful people in our lives!
Keep praying,
Day by day
Day by day
Oh Dear Lord
Three things I pray
To see thee more clearly
Love thee more dearly
Follow thee more nearly
Day by day
Day by day by day by day...
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
UPDATE 2/16
The Cat Scan showed more decrease in swelling and a decrease in the blood. Although small changes they are still good news. Her brain is back to center. Both legs moved during the scan which is also good. I could not spend too much time this morning with her as she was getting her head washed to make sure there was no infection as she still have a fever and this is the main concern right now. She has an infection somewhere and we cannot find it yet but the doctors are working hard to cover all options to control the fever.
The picture with the 3 lines going across is her breathing function. The yellow is Michele breathing on he own and the red is when the machine helps her. As you can see she is mostly breathing on her own.
The other machine shows her oxygen at 100, hear rate at 130, blood pressure 85/34, temp is 37.5 which is 99.5
I have sent a picture of Karen and Michele this morning.
Those of you who are doctors just agree with me on my limited knowledge of explanation.
The picture with the 3 lines going across is her breathing function. The yellow is Michele breathing on he own and the red is when the machine helps her. As you can see she is mostly breathing on her own.
The other machine shows her oxygen at 100, hear rate at 130, blood pressure 85/34, temp is 37.5 which is 99.5
I have sent a picture of Karen and Michele this morning.
Those of you who are doctors just agree with me on my limited knowledge of explanation.
Monday, February 15, 2010
UPDATE 2/15
Today Michele has another temperature of 101.1 which is coming from an infection. We think it is either the catheter or the IV line which both were replaced today. Cultures were taken and we gave her Antibiotics to battle the temp. She is slowly wakening by moving her shoulders, blinking and trying to open her right eye. Physical therapy is daily now so that we can get her body moving when she wakes up. Karen and I rub her legs and arms for about an hour 3 times a day and talk to her constantly trying to get her to wake up. Her heart rate increases up to 144 at times so I know she is in there working on her end.
Billy will be traveling out this Thursday to help in his Mothers recovery.
Sorry not too much news today but I hope to have more tomorrow. We have a Cat Scan scheduled for 10am to check the swelling on the brain again.
Thanks for all your prayers and please keep them coming!
John
Billy will be traveling out this Thursday to help in his Mothers recovery.
Sorry not too much news today but I hope to have more tomorrow. We have a Cat Scan scheduled for 10am to check the swelling on the brain again.
Thanks for all your prayers and please keep them coming!
John
Sunday, February 14, 2010
UPDATE 2/14 #2
Secretary number 3 “Karen” reporting for duty,
Karen arrived safely and we went to the hospital for the afternoon visiting hours. She doesn’t know how lucky she was to see improvement in Michele on her first visit; it was the first time in 12 days that Michele has shown some physical movement. Her right eye was twitching and she was moving her right shoulder.
Small movements give us great optimism; she is trying to open her right eye and moving her shoulders constantly and when I asked her to move her left elbow she did. I had her heart rate up to 142 when she is normally at 100 right now meaning she is responding to my voice. This was at 10 pm this evening so we kept our visit short because they wanted to sedate her for the evening so she could get her rest for a bigger day tomorrow.
I called Karen two days ago and requested “Project Jelly Bean” to be implemented and it was a great success. We delivered a large jar full of Jelly Beans with Love written all over it to the ICU today for the doctors, nurses and all other medical staff that help in any way for Michele’s recovery. A written letter in English and Spanish states that every jelly bean is a symbol of our thanks for all the work and care they give to Michele every minute of every day. They all loved it and within 20 minutes half of the jar was gone. Karen brought 4 pounds of beans so we have plenty more thanks to fill up over the upcoming days so all the staff receives our deepest appreciation.
Attached is a picture of Dave and Brenda with Miracle Michele telling her,”see you later” before they left to go home.
John
Karen arrived safely and we went to the hospital for the afternoon visiting hours. She doesn’t know how lucky she was to see improvement in Michele on her first visit; it was the first time in 12 days that Michele has shown some physical movement. Her right eye was twitching and she was moving her right shoulder.
Small movements give us great optimism; she is trying to open her right eye and moving her shoulders constantly and when I asked her to move her left elbow she did. I had her heart rate up to 142 when she is normally at 100 right now meaning she is responding to my voice. This was at 10 pm this evening so we kept our visit short because they wanted to sedate her for the evening so she could get her rest for a bigger day tomorrow.
I called Karen two days ago and requested “Project Jelly Bean” to be implemented and it was a great success. We delivered a large jar full of Jelly Beans with Love written all over it to the ICU today for the doctors, nurses and all other medical staff that help in any way for Michele’s recovery. A written letter in English and Spanish states that every jelly bean is a symbol of our thanks for all the work and care they give to Michele every minute of every day. They all loved it and within 20 minutes half of the jar was gone. Karen brought 4 pounds of beans so we have plenty more thanks to fill up over the upcoming days so all the staff receives our deepest appreciation.
Attached is a picture of Dave and Brenda with Miracle Michele telling her,”see you later” before they left to go home.
John
UPDATE 2/14 #1
Happy Valentine’s Day to all,
Michele had her scan at 10am this morning and the swelling continues to decrease at a very slow pace. The fluid I explained the other day outside the incision is simply blood and will be removed when the time is right. It does not pose any problems at this time and is not in the brain just on the outside between the skin and bone. She continues to fight with her breathing and coughs from time to time which is a good sign. The doctors concerns are in the following order of priority.
Stability and keep her alive: This is done
Brain swelling to decrease: This is in progress
Respiratory: She needs to breathe on her own, she is showing signs of attempting this.
Wake up: We are all waiting on this and we just have to keep praying that she will.
Movement: once awake we will check motor skills, language and memory
Michele and I have never been supporters of Valentine’s Day as we always have said we should say we love each other every day of the year and not just one special day. We never go out to dinner or buy gifts or flowers but simply keep loving each other every day.
Today I bought her first roses and balloon and they sit outside the ICU waiting room for her to wake up and see them through the glass.
Karen will be arriving soon and we will go to see Michele later today and see if she has progressed in any way. I will continue to keep each of you updated on her progress.
John
Michele had her scan at 10am this morning and the swelling continues to decrease at a very slow pace. The fluid I explained the other day outside the incision is simply blood and will be removed when the time is right. It does not pose any problems at this time and is not in the brain just on the outside between the skin and bone. She continues to fight with her breathing and coughs from time to time which is a good sign. The doctors concerns are in the following order of priority.
Stability and keep her alive: This is done
Brain swelling to decrease: This is in progress
Respiratory: She needs to breathe on her own, she is showing signs of attempting this.
Wake up: We are all waiting on this and we just have to keep praying that she will.
Movement: once awake we will check motor skills, language and memory
Michele and I have never been supporters of Valentine’s Day as we always have said we should say we love each other every day of the year and not just one special day. We never go out to dinner or buy gifts or flowers but simply keep loving each other every day.
Today I bought her first roses and balloon and they sit outside the ICU waiting room for her to wake up and see them through the glass.
Karen will be arriving soon and we will go to see Michele later today and see if she has progressed in any way. I will continue to keep each of you updated on her progress.
John
Saturday, February 13, 2010
UPDATE 2/13
Another day and not too many changes. Michele still continues to improve but at a very slow pace by the doctor’s orders. I can tell she is fighting as her breathing is more rapid, meaning she is trying to breathe on her own without the ventilator. Although the doctors do not want her to come out of the coma too quickly I can tell her strong will is to come back to us as soon as possible. We will have another brain scan tomorrow at 10am to see what has occurred in the last 48 hours. Brenda and Dave leave tomorrow morning so I will be at the hospital in the morning with Michele alone and it will give me time to talk to her and tell her how much she is loved by so many.
Karen arrives in the afternoon and we will go to see Michele around 4pm and give each of you a new update at that time.
The attached picture is of my children, Jordan and Brian making some special cookies.
John
Karen arrives in the afternoon and we will go to see Michele around 4pm and give each of you a new update at that time.
The attached picture is of my children, Jordan and Brian making some special cookies.
John
Friday, February 12, 2010
UPDATE 2/12 #2
We visited Michele this evening to see how her afternoon went and to say goodnight. Doctors indicated that all went well but we are at a snail’s pace. If she continues to have a good evening they will back off more on her sedation in the morning, I have a feeling this is going to be a long process. We may even have to take steps backwards from time to time to get the reduction of medication set right.
I need to ask all of you a favor, I have received many pictures from people but please pick only 1 to send at a time and make sure it is a compressed file. The wireless in Cancun is not like at home and some mornings it takes 1 hour just to get my email downloaded. I don’t want to discourage future pics just send the good ones and make them small in size.
Also I cannot get my voice mails on my cell phone therefore I am trying to answer every call. If for any reason I do not answer do not leave a message as I will not get it instead call me again after 10 minutes. I put everyone on hold other than the doctor. I must have a hundred messages I cannot get at this time so let’s not add more to the list.
Text messages cost .35 cents for each one received and sent but emails are free and unlimited. Again I do not want to discourage any info needed but let’s use our communication wisely as Michele and I are going to be here for a while.
I do enjoy everyone’s emails and calls so please do not stop they are keeping me strong and I need to stay strong for Michele.
Remember if anyone wants to be added to the e-mail list just send a request and don’t hesitate to forward to any and all friends and family. Michele will take as many prayers as possible so spread the word.
Dave, Brenda and I will be moving to our new villa and then heading off to the hospital by 10 am. We will have another busy day and will send out an email later in the afternoon.
See my beautiful Miracle Michele attached taken just 1.5 years ago at her 40th birthday.
John
I need to ask all of you a favor, I have received many pictures from people but please pick only 1 to send at a time and make sure it is a compressed file. The wireless in Cancun is not like at home and some mornings it takes 1 hour just to get my email downloaded. I don’t want to discourage future pics just send the good ones and make them small in size.
Also I cannot get my voice mails on my cell phone therefore I am trying to answer every call. If for any reason I do not answer do not leave a message as I will not get it instead call me again after 10 minutes. I put everyone on hold other than the doctor. I must have a hundred messages I cannot get at this time so let’s not add more to the list.
Text messages cost .35 cents for each one received and sent but emails are free and unlimited. Again I do not want to discourage any info needed but let’s use our communication wisely as Michele and I are going to be here for a while.
I do enjoy everyone’s emails and calls so please do not stop they are keeping me strong and I need to stay strong for Michele.
Remember if anyone wants to be added to the e-mail list just send a request and don’t hesitate to forward to any and all friends and family. Michele will take as many prayers as possible so spread the word.
Dave, Brenda and I will be moving to our new villa and then heading off to the hospital by 10 am. We will have another busy day and will send out an email later in the afternoon.
See my beautiful Miracle Michele attached taken just 1.5 years ago at her 40th birthday.
John
UPDATE 2/12 #1
We have good news. Michele’s scan came back with a small decrease in the swelling. Although it is small it is a decrease and a positive direction. The doctors are going to decrease her sedation at a very slow pace and see how she reacts. If she has negative reaction they will increase sedation. The next scan is planned for 48 more hours but we are now at Michele’s pace and we have to see how she reacts. Keep an eye out for emails as I will update as I get info each time. My visiting hours are 10am to 12pm; 4pm to 6pm and 9pm to 11pm. I will update each time if she shows signs of improvement. Although we are attempting to make this a slow process you all know Michele and she never does things slow. We are going to try and keep her at this slow pace for her own well being. Please keep her in your prayers as we are starting the long process to bring her out of her coma. She does have some fluid outside her incision which we are going to get a sample of and get a biopsy (2-3 days for results) they did say the fluid or tissue is not brain matter and may simply be removed based on the results. We are also going to start physical therapy moving her legs and arms as the sedation is reduced.
The picture is of her returning from her scan. You can see the team of doctors she has. 8-10 doctors and nurses working to protect her at all times.
John
The picture is of her returning from her scan. You can see the team of doctors she has. 8-10 doctors and nurses working to protect her at all times.
John
Thursday, February 11, 2010
UPDATE 2/11
Dear Family and Friends,
Secretary #2 reporting for duty!!! Another day of waiting with no real changes. Dave arrived safely and visited with Michele last night and this morning. We currently have sixteen hours to go. The doctors plan to take another scan tomorrow morning around 7AM. Dr. Garcia will be leaving town for three days and wants to make sure Michele is in good hands before he leaves. Of course I told him he was not allowed to leave but I guess some battles just can’t be won. Although he has assured me he will be available by cell phone at all times for my personal calls.
I called in a favor to my Aunt Mo yesterday in the DC area and although she was unable to actually perform my request herself she did find some willing and able servants to make sure my wishes were granted. The attached picture “project snow angel” was performed by my cousins from the Shipley family. Thank you all so very much!
The other picture is from our last day in Cancun last year in our backyard. I hope to get one of Michele and myself very soon before leaving to come home.
Tomorrow is the big day “I can feel it” so please keep Michele in your prayers tonight. Her candle is still burning bright at the church hear in Cancun and many other places throughout the US.
John,
Brenda & Dave
Secretary #2 reporting for duty!!! Another day of waiting with no real changes. Dave arrived safely and visited with Michele last night and this morning. We currently have sixteen hours to go. The doctors plan to take another scan tomorrow morning around 7AM. Dr. Garcia will be leaving town for three days and wants to make sure Michele is in good hands before he leaves. Of course I told him he was not allowed to leave but I guess some battles just can’t be won. Although he has assured me he will be available by cell phone at all times for my personal calls.
I called in a favor to my Aunt Mo yesterday in the DC area and although she was unable to actually perform my request herself she did find some willing and able servants to make sure my wishes were granted. The attached picture “project snow angel” was performed by my cousins from the Shipley family. Thank you all so very much!
The other picture is from our last day in Cancun last year in our backyard. I hope to get one of Michele and myself very soon before leaving to come home.
Tomorrow is the big day “I can feel it” so please keep Michele in your prayers tonight. Her candle is still burning bright at the church hear in Cancun and many other places throughout the US.
John,
Brenda & Dave
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
UPDATE 2/10
OK my secretary is now gone so you all have to deal with my own words. I was expecting better news this morning but we are on another 48 hours notice. Michele’s scan came back with a decrease in the blood but no decrease in the swelling. Although this is good news it is just at a slower pace than I expect. Dr Garcia told me they had to increase her sedation once again because she shows signs that she wants to wake up but that will be detrimental to her brain so we need to keep her in a deep coma for another 48 hours. The continued days under sedation will of course bring about new battles in the future when she awakes but for now our main concern is the brain. The best I could understand is the bleeding that has decreased was near the “language” part of the brain while the swelling is near the memory section. Dave Ariniello arrives today to help Brenda and I for the rest of the week.
I will continue to keep everyone updated as I get news but I am at 2 visiting hours each day during this time frame and only for a short time as to not stimulate Michele as her heart rate increases every time I talk to her. I know she can hear me and wants to come back to us but we have to wait ”Day by Day” for the Lord to give her back to us in his time frame.
John
I will continue to keep everyone updated as I get news but I am at 2 visiting hours each day during this time frame and only for a short time as to not stimulate Michele as her heart rate increases every time I talk to her. I know she can hear me and wants to come back to us but we have to wait ”Day by Day” for the Lord to give her back to us in his time frame.
John
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
UPDATE 2/9
Family and Friends,
Michele was stable through the night and looks really good today! Her bandage is off so her stitches can breathe. A cat scan is scheduled for tomorrow (Wednesday) and based on the results, they may start to decrease the sedation at that time. Unlike the first coma she recovered from (in 2 hours), this recovery may take days based on the deep level of sedation she is now under. Dr. Garcia told us that they are learning about how much a fighter Michele is, and are going to take it very slow this time. My new moto is “Day by Day”.
Michele’s sister Amy and her boyfriend Tim fly back to Colorado today and leave Michele (and I) in the capable hands of my sister Brenda. Dave Ariniello arrives tomorrow to help and support me. Michele’s soul mate Karen Long is scheduled to arrive next Sunday, the 14th. We’ve secured a room at another Royal Resorts time share unit which is closer to the hospital and will move there sometime after Karen arrives.
The first picture attached was taken by Amy today, and the second picture was sent to me by our dear friend Liz, and was taken on the first day Michele and I met on June 19, 1986.
Thank you all for your continued prayer!
Love to all,
John
Day by day
Day by day
Oh Dear Lord
Three things I pray
To see thee more clearly
Love thee more dearly
Follow thee more nearly
Day by day
Day by day by day by day...
Michele was stable through the night and looks really good today! Her bandage is off so her stitches can breathe. A cat scan is scheduled for tomorrow (Wednesday) and based on the results, they may start to decrease the sedation at that time. Unlike the first coma she recovered from (in 2 hours), this recovery may take days based on the deep level of sedation she is now under. Dr. Garcia told us that they are learning about how much a fighter Michele is, and are going to take it very slow this time. My new moto is “Day by Day”.
Michele’s sister Amy and her boyfriend Tim fly back to Colorado today and leave Michele (and I) in the capable hands of my sister Brenda. Dave Ariniello arrives tomorrow to help and support me. Michele’s soul mate Karen Long is scheduled to arrive next Sunday, the 14th. We’ve secured a room at another Royal Resorts time share unit which is closer to the hospital and will move there sometime after Karen arrives.
The first picture attached was taken by Amy today, and the second picture was sent to me by our dear friend Liz, and was taken on the first day Michele and I met on June 19, 1986.
Thank you all for your continued prayer!
Love to all,
John
Day by day
Day by day
Oh Dear Lord
Three things I pray
To see thee more clearly
Love thee more dearly
Follow thee more nearly
Day by day
Day by day by day by day...
Monday, February 8, 2010
UPDATE 2/8
Friends and Family,
Michele was stable throughout the night, however there was another change to her pupil, indicating to the doctors it was time to perform another cat scan at 9am this morning. The results were good, her brain swelling has decreased. They’ve changed the combination of medications that she is receiving to keep her in a deep sedation for another 48 hours.
Although the pupil change is a sign of alarm, the good news is the swelling decreased and they changed the medication to keep her in the coma. Each time something like this happens, we go back to another 48 hours, putting us at Thursday morning for another cat scan, and possible decrease of sedation to bring her back out.
The attached picture is a bracelet that the senorita in the laundry facility here gave to me. She asks about Michele every time I see her. Michele has gotten to know her over the past few years during our vacations here in Cancun, and her concern and kind words bring comfort to us.
We continue to have 100% confidence in her doctors and nurses, and have put a picture of the family (our Christmas picture) in the ICU waiting room.
I would like to say again, I appreciate all of your prayers, thoughts and emails. PLEASE continue to send emails. Although I may not respond, I read every one of them and it truly is a sense of comfort to me and my family that is here in Cancun helping me through this difficult time.
Thank God the Saints came marching home!
Love to all,
John
Michele was stable throughout the night, however there was another change to her pupil, indicating to the doctors it was time to perform another cat scan at 9am this morning. The results were good, her brain swelling has decreased. They’ve changed the combination of medications that she is receiving to keep her in a deep sedation for another 48 hours.
Although the pupil change is a sign of alarm, the good news is the swelling decreased and they changed the medication to keep her in the coma. Each time something like this happens, we go back to another 48 hours, putting us at Thursday morning for another cat scan, and possible decrease of sedation to bring her back out.
The attached picture is a bracelet that the senorita in the laundry facility here gave to me. She asks about Michele every time I see her. Michele has gotten to know her over the past few years during our vacations here in Cancun, and her concern and kind words bring comfort to us.
We continue to have 100% confidence in her doctors and nurses, and have put a picture of the family (our Christmas picture) in the ICU waiting room.
I would like to say again, I appreciate all of your prayers, thoughts and emails. PLEASE continue to send emails. Although I may not respond, I read every one of them and it truly is a sense of comfort to me and my family that is here in Cancun helping me through this difficult time.
Thank God the Saints came marching home!
Love to all,
John
Sunday, February 7, 2010
UPDATE 2/7
Family and Friends,
We received unfortunate news on our way back to the hospital last night. The diameter of Michele’s left pupil changed, thus requiring an emergency cat scan which showed additional swelling of her brain. In immediate response to this, she was put into deeper sedation, the highest possible coma as well as muscle relaxers to paralyze her muscles and keep her as still as possible for the next 48 hours. She will continue to be monitored every hour, and unless anything changes, a cat scan is scheduled for Tuesday. Any change will require another emergency cat scan and possibly brain surgery to remove a section of cerebral tissue.
With the help of Sr. Anne, we were able to put Michele’s neurosurgeon in touch with a neurosurgeon in the US who has reviewed Michele’s records up to date. We were assured that the medical treatment she is receiving is exactly what she needs. We have always felt very confident with her doctors, and now feel a sense of relief knowing this.
Another major concern now is sepsis in her blood that the doctors are battling to control, which will ultimately help bring down the swelling of the brain. Information on sepsis: http://www.emedicinehealth.com/sepsis_blood_infection/page2_em.htm
Brenda arrived this morning and will be here until Sunday. We will continue to let Michele rest, only visiting very briefly during visiting hours.
Amy, Tim and I attended mass this morning at The Church of the Risen Christ. We lit a candle and took the attached picture. The 2 prayers below were said to close that mass, which Amy read to Michele:
SOUL OF CHRIST
Soul of Christ, sanctify me.
Body of Christ, heal me.
Blood of Christ, drench me.
Water from the side of Christ, wash me.
Passion of Christ, strengthen me.
Good Jesus, hear me.
In your wounds, shelter me.
From turning away, keep me.
From the evil one, protect me.
In the hour of my death, call me.
Into your presence, lead me,
to praise you with all your saints forever and ever.
Amen
Dedication to Jesus
Lord Jesus Christ, take all my freedom, my memory, my understanding, and my will.
All that I have I and cherish you have given to me. I surrender it all to be guided by your will.
Your love and your grace are wealth enough for me. Give me these, Lord Jesus, and I ask for nothing more.
St. Ignatius Loyola (1491-1556)
Love to all,
John
We received unfortunate news on our way back to the hospital last night. The diameter of Michele’s left pupil changed, thus requiring an emergency cat scan which showed additional swelling of her brain. In immediate response to this, she was put into deeper sedation, the highest possible coma as well as muscle relaxers to paralyze her muscles and keep her as still as possible for the next 48 hours. She will continue to be monitored every hour, and unless anything changes, a cat scan is scheduled for Tuesday. Any change will require another emergency cat scan and possibly brain surgery to remove a section of cerebral tissue.
With the help of Sr. Anne, we were able to put Michele’s neurosurgeon in touch with a neurosurgeon in the US who has reviewed Michele’s records up to date. We were assured that the medical treatment she is receiving is exactly what she needs. We have always felt very confident with her doctors, and now feel a sense of relief knowing this.
Another major concern now is sepsis in her blood that the doctors are battling to control, which will ultimately help bring down the swelling of the brain. Information on sepsis: http://www.emedicinehealth.com/sepsis_blood_infection/page2_em.htm
Brenda arrived this morning and will be here until Sunday. We will continue to let Michele rest, only visiting very briefly during visiting hours.
Amy, Tim and I attended mass this morning at The Church of the Risen Christ. We lit a candle and took the attached picture. The 2 prayers below were said to close that mass, which Amy read to Michele:
SOUL OF CHRIST
Soul of Christ, sanctify me.
Body of Christ, heal me.
Blood of Christ, drench me.
Water from the side of Christ, wash me.
Passion of Christ, strengthen me.
Good Jesus, hear me.
In your wounds, shelter me.
From turning away, keep me.
From the evil one, protect me.
In the hour of my death, call me.
Into your presence, lead me,
to praise you with all your saints forever and ever.
Amen
Dedication to Jesus
Lord Jesus Christ, take all my freedom, my memory, my understanding, and my will.
All that I have I and cherish you have given to me. I surrender it all to be guided by your will.
Your love and your grace are wealth enough for me. Give me these, Lord Jesus, and I ask for nothing more.
St. Ignatius Loyola (1491-1556)
Love to all,
John
Saturday, February 6, 2010
UPDATE 2/6
Family and Friends,
Michele continues to get much needed rest. There has been little change, however I’m happy to report that her platelets have gone up to 87,000. Her white blood cells have dropped a little, as she is fighting a new infection, salmonella. We’re not sure how she got that, if it was part of her initial illness that she was treated for before the accident, but she is now on (yet another) antibiotic to fight it.
I can tell you every day that passes I miss her more and more, and it is emotionally draining to see her this way. I know she will get better and I know I just need to remain strong. I just miss her so much.
We are hopeful that the results of the cat scan tomorrow will allow us to start bringing her back slowly. I know that you all are praying around the clock and I ask that tomorrow around 10am Cancun time, you pray extra hard. We’re anxious to start sending out the good news again!
Happy pictures attached.
Love to all,
John
Michele continues to get much needed rest. There has been little change, however I’m happy to report that her platelets have gone up to 87,000. Her white blood cells have dropped a little, as she is fighting a new infection, salmonella. We’re not sure how she got that, if it was part of her initial illness that she was treated for before the accident, but she is now on (yet another) antibiotic to fight it.
I can tell you every day that passes I miss her more and more, and it is emotionally draining to see her this way. I know she will get better and I know I just need to remain strong. I just miss her so much.
We are hopeful that the results of the cat scan tomorrow will allow us to start bringing her back slowly. I know that you all are praying around the clock and I ask that tomorrow around 10am Cancun time, you pray extra hard. We’re anxious to start sending out the good news again!
Happy pictures attached.
Love to all,
John
Friday, February 5, 2010
UPDATE 2/5
Family and Friends,
The results of Michele’s cat scan and lung x-ray came back this morning. There is no change on the cat scan, which means no additional bleeding or swelling. This is good. The infection in the lungs has decreased slightly. The plan is to keep her in the coma until Sunday, and take another cat scan. Depending on those results, they may begin to start bringing her back to us on Sunday. Unless any of her vitals change, she will continue to rest. We will continue to visit during visiting hours for her to hear our voices.
Amy and I stopped by a church on the way back to the hotel and lit a candle for Michele. We left a note: Please Lord, bring our Miracle Michele back to us. We are confident He will. We also stopped in town to have henna tattoos done, Amy’s says Miracle Michele on her wrist and mine says WMIGI on my arm. Wherever Michele Is, God Is. We both plan on making them permanent as soon as we get back home with her.
Shortly after returning to the hotel, Dr. Garcia called to let us know her platelets are up to 83,000. Remember, she dropped to a dangerous 30,000 thus causing the doctors to put her back into a coma. A safe level is 50,000. This was excellent news, and there was excitement in his voice.
We are returning this afternoon, and again this evening to say goodnight.
Your continued prayers are so very much appreciated.
Love to all,
John
The results of Michele’s cat scan and lung x-ray came back this morning. There is no change on the cat scan, which means no additional bleeding or swelling. This is good. The infection in the lungs has decreased slightly. The plan is to keep her in the coma until Sunday, and take another cat scan. Depending on those results, they may begin to start bringing her back to us on Sunday. Unless any of her vitals change, she will continue to rest. We will continue to visit during visiting hours for her to hear our voices.
Amy and I stopped by a church on the way back to the hotel and lit a candle for Michele. We left a note: Please Lord, bring our Miracle Michele back to us. We are confident He will. We also stopped in town to have henna tattoos done, Amy’s says Miracle Michele on her wrist and mine says WMIGI on my arm. Wherever Michele Is, God Is. We both plan on making them permanent as soon as we get back home with her.
Shortly after returning to the hotel, Dr. Garcia called to let us know her platelets are up to 83,000. Remember, she dropped to a dangerous 30,000 thus causing the doctors to put her back into a coma. A safe level is 50,000. This was excellent news, and there was excitement in his voice.
We are returning this afternoon, and again this evening to say goodnight.
Your continued prayers are so very much appreciated.
Love to all,
John
Thursday, February 4, 2010
UPDATE 2/4
Family and Friends,
We visited Michele this morning and she looks good, is stable and resting comfortably. Her face and hands are less swollen and she really looks more like herself. She remains in ICU in a coma. The doctors are monitoring her vital signs every hour for any change in her pupils or vitals. So far so good. She is scheduled for a cat scan tomorrow morning and that will let us know if the swelling in her brain has decreased. If there is any change to the pupils or vitals she may be taken into emergency surgery to reduce the pressure on her brain. Currently the infection in her lungs looks a little better, and her blood platelets are on the rise. When we left this afternoon, she is peacefully resting and all vitals look good.
We will return to the hospital tonight to say goodnight and remind her how many people love her and are praying for her. We know she can hear us.
Tomorrow morning we return to review the results of the cat scan and expect to have some good news.
Thanks again for your continued prayers and support.
Love to all,
John
We visited Michele this morning and she looks good, is stable and resting comfortably. Her face and hands are less swollen and she really looks more like herself. She remains in ICU in a coma. The doctors are monitoring her vital signs every hour for any change in her pupils or vitals. So far so good. She is scheduled for a cat scan tomorrow morning and that will let us know if the swelling in her brain has decreased. If there is any change to the pupils or vitals she may be taken into emergency surgery to reduce the pressure on her brain. Currently the infection in her lungs looks a little better, and her blood platelets are on the rise. When we left this afternoon, she is peacefully resting and all vitals look good.
We will return to the hospital tonight to say goodnight and remind her how many people love her and are praying for her. We know she can hear us.
Tomorrow morning we return to review the results of the cat scan and expect to have some good news.
Thanks again for your continued prayers and support.
Love to all,
John
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
UPDATE 2/3 PM
Family and Friends,
As always I feel it very important to get word to you, good or bad. As of this afternoon, Michele is in a controlled coma due to additional swelling on her brain. Her blood platelets dropped severely, and were no longer able to clot the blood around her incision from surgery, causing another hematoma, thus swelling the brain. She will remain in a coma for 3 – 5 days. We are basically back to day 2 of this horrific nightmare and the doctors will monitor her clinical responses every hour. If there is any indication of additional swelling, they will perform emergency surgery to alleviate pressure on the brain. The infection in her lungs remains and she is on antibiotics.
At this time, she is stable. Amy and I will return to the hospital during visitor hours so that she can hear our voices. More than ever, we need your prayers. We need our Michele back.
Love to all,
John
As always I feel it very important to get word to you, good or bad. As of this afternoon, Michele is in a controlled coma due to additional swelling on her brain. Her blood platelets dropped severely, and were no longer able to clot the blood around her incision from surgery, causing another hematoma, thus swelling the brain. She will remain in a coma for 3 – 5 days. We are basically back to day 2 of this horrific nightmare and the doctors will monitor her clinical responses every hour. If there is any indication of additional swelling, they will perform emergency surgery to alleviate pressure on the brain. The infection in her lungs remains and she is on antibiotics.
At this time, she is stable. Amy and I will return to the hospital during visitor hours so that she can hear our voices. More than ever, we need your prayers. We need our Michele back.
Love to all,
John
UPDATE 2/3 AM
Family and Friends,
Michele was put back on the respirator last night as her doctors wanted to take better control of her recovery. She was having trouble getting oxygen in her lungs and as of this morning the respirator has helped. Her oxygen level has returned to normal, and all other vitals are good. She received blood transfusions last night as necessary. Unfortunately she is unable to communicate with us again, however she is sedated so that she can rest. She is stable.
I will send another update when anything changes, but for today, we just expect her to rest.
Your continued support, emails and most importantly the prayers are so much appreciated. Keep them coming, please.
Love to all,
John
Michele was put back on the respirator last night as her doctors wanted to take better control of her recovery. She was having trouble getting oxygen in her lungs and as of this morning the respirator has helped. Her oxygen level has returned to normal, and all other vitals are good. She received blood transfusions last night as necessary. Unfortunately she is unable to communicate with us again, however she is sedated so that she can rest. She is stable.
I will send another update when anything changes, but for today, we just expect her to rest.
Your continued support, emails and most importantly the prayers are so much appreciated. Keep them coming, please.
Love to all,
John
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
UPDATE 2/2
Family and Friends,
Although Michele has made much progress so far, we’ve come to a standstill at this point due to an infection which is in her lungs. The infection is treatable, however it is of great concern. She went back into the OR for a procedure to clean the initial wound and the neurosurgeon said everything looks good. Our concern now is clearing her lungs and it has been a slow process. They changed some of her medications tonight that will hopefully help her clear them out. She remains in ICU and we ask for all of your prayers to get over this hurdle that is in front of us.
Her children visited this evening to say goodbye as they are headed home to Colorado, in hopes to see their Mother soon. I’ll stay here in Cancun with Amy to take care of Michele. We have no known date of our departure.
Please continue your prayers and emails of support, as Michele’s struggle to recover is not over.
Love to all,
John
Although Michele has made much progress so far, we’ve come to a standstill at this point due to an infection which is in her lungs. The infection is treatable, however it is of great concern. She went back into the OR for a procedure to clean the initial wound and the neurosurgeon said everything looks good. Our concern now is clearing her lungs and it has been a slow process. They changed some of her medications tonight that will hopefully help her clear them out. She remains in ICU and we ask for all of your prayers to get over this hurdle that is in front of us.
Her children visited this evening to say goodbye as they are headed home to Colorado, in hopes to see their Mother soon. I’ll stay here in Cancun with Amy to take care of Michele. We have no known date of our departure.
Please continue your prayers and emails of support, as Michele’s struggle to recover is not over.
Love to all,
John
Monday, February 1, 2010
UPDATE 2/1
Family and Friends,
Michele continues in her recovery and looks good today. The fever that began last night continues today and we are working on bringing it down. The catheter has been removed which may be causing an infection triggering the fever. The neurosurgeon said that the head lesion is clean, and there was no infection there. He said it looks good.
Michele was up and sitting in a chair for a few hours today. As long as the fever goes down, we hope to move her into a regular room sometime soon. We are limiting her visitors today as we need her to rest, and she said she is very tired. She took a few [assisted] steps back to her bed before laying down to sleep.
After speaking with the doctor this morning, Michele and I (and hopefully Amy) will fly via Medivac back to the US so that she can be monitored on the plane. We don’t have a lot of details on exactly when and will send out word as soon as we know. At this moment we await for her temperature to drop.
Thanks for your continued prayers.
Keep praying,
John
Michele continues in her recovery and looks good today. The fever that began last night continues today and we are working on bringing it down. The catheter has been removed which may be causing an infection triggering the fever. The neurosurgeon said that the head lesion is clean, and there was no infection there. He said it looks good.
Michele was up and sitting in a chair for a few hours today. As long as the fever goes down, we hope to move her into a regular room sometime soon. We are limiting her visitors today as we need her to rest, and she said she is very tired. She took a few [assisted] steps back to her bed before laying down to sleep.
After speaking with the doctor this morning, Michele and I (and hopefully Amy) will fly via Medivac back to the US so that she can be monitored on the plane. We don’t have a lot of details on exactly when and will send out word as soon as we know. At this moment we await for her temperature to drop.
Thanks for your continued prayers.
Keep praying,
John
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